New Mom Under Fire for Postbaby Body Selfie
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"This is not a selfie. This is an act of war," writes one Australian blogger in response to the image — just one of many blogs, news outlets, body image experts, and social-media commenters around the world to weigh in on the matter in the past few days, putting the photo
at the center of a major online body image controversy. "This whole
situation has become ludicrous. The competition for women to give birth
and then immediately remove any trace from their their bodies that they
ever carried a child is OBSCENE. There is no other word for it." Another
blogger calls the photo of Eriksen, who is married to pro soccer player Lars-Kristian Eriksen, "wildly provocative."
Eriksen posted the photo of herself on Instagram, along with the
caption, "I feel so empty…4 days after birth," igniting the online
backlash. Twitter users called Eriksen and her washboard abs
"intimidating," "unhelpful," "obviously a freak," and "unfair to all
women."
Australian Telegraph writer Sarrah Le Marquand
offers a mixed review of the situation, tweeting that yes, Eriksen is a
"shameless exhibitionist," but warning in her column that "slamming the
super-fit and genetically freakish likes of Berg Eriksen is merely another form of judgment and mothers are forced to contend with far too much of that already."
On Instagram itself, the controversial photo has been "liked" more than
21,000 times, and comments have been overwhelmingly positive. There,
supporters note, "U rock girl! I have three kids and I'm a blimp," "Body
envy is an ugly thing," "I applaud you," and "Beautiful!"
"Women are sick of this omnipresent pressure to get our bodies back.
And when you're juggling a newborn's needs, running on no sleep and
trying to take care of yourself, that's a toxic message," notes Claire Mysko, author of "Does This Pregnancy Make Me Look Fat?" and former director of the American Anorexia Bulimia Association.
So, she tells Yahoo Shine, it's not surprising when people have strong
reactions to photos like Eriksen's. "While I don't think it's helpful to
shame the individual mothers who choose to post pictures of themselves,
I do think the pushback signals a healthy reaction to some very
unhealthy and unrealistic cultural expectations."
Earlier photos
posted to Instagram by Eriksen show her with a barely-there bump at nine
months pregnant, which displeased some followers and may have flown in
the face of the American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists'
pregnancy weight guidelines. Those recommendations say that
"underweight" women (with a BMI of less than 18.5) should gain 28 to 40
pounds during a pregnancy, while those of "normal weight" (with a BMI of
18.5 to 24.9) should put on 25 to 35.
But prenatal nutritionist and spokesperson for the Academy of Nutrition
and Dietetics Melinda Johnson warns against jumping to conclusions from
Eriksen's photos, noting that every woman is an individual, with
individual needs and abilities. "Obviously, what we're looking at is
someone who is genetically gifted," she tells Yahoo Shine. "But we can't
say she's unhealthy, we can't say [what] she is. The picture alone
doesn't tell us anything at all about her health, the health of her
pregnancy [or] even her happiness."
